#WriterWednesday with Belinda Betker

I’d like to welcome Belinda Betker to the blog for #WriterWednesday.

Favorite thing to do when you have free time: I’m a life-long voracious reader, and I often read up to five or six books at a time. I particularly read poetry, memoirs, and novels that have been recommended by friends. I also love word puzzle magazines, especially when I need to think things through about my own writing. I love walking with my wife and dog in a 300-acre forest close to city limits. I love spending time with friends, family, and the groups I volunteer with.

The thing you’ll always move to the bottom of your to do list: Washing floors and walls.

Things you need when you’re in your writing cave: I keep a good supply on hand of my favourite style of journal – 6”x8”, soft cover, with ruled lines and built-in ribbon page marker. My favourite pen is a Uni-ball JetStream, blue ink. Beyond that, I need my PC, good lighting, and good music when I write and edit.

Things that distract you from writing: Necessary housework; or an invitation out for tea, a meal, a good movie, or a great concert.

Favorite snacks: Flavoured potato chips, especially dill pickle, or sour cream & onion.

Things that make you want to gag: Bananas – the texture is horrible, but I can tolerate them when they’re baked into cakes or a loaf.

Something you’re really good at: I excel at procrastination!

Something you’re really bad at: Tackling tasks and chores that should be done that I really don’t want to do.

Something you wanted to be when you were a kid: I thought I’d be an early-grades elementary school teacher.

Something you do that you never dreamed you’d do: I never dreamed I’d have a proverbial ‘room of one’s own’ to write in, and that I’d become a published poet.

Something you wish you could do: Sky diving, parasailing, ziplining, etc. – anything where I could safely experience free-falling or moving quicky through the air.

Something you wish you’d never learned to do: Housework – I really dislike housework!

Things to say to an author: I absolutely love your book, & this is why (& then be specific.)

Things to say to an author if you want to be fictionally killed off in their next book: I don’t like your writing style or what you write about.

Favorite places you’ve been: Australia – everywhere there I’ve already been to, and I’d go anywhere there I haven’t been yet. I’ve also enjoyed all the major Canadian cities I’ve visited, as well as numerous smaller cities, towns, and national/provincial/regional parks.

Places you never want to go to again: Anywhere I’ve been has been interesting enough to be worth the experience.

Favorite things to do: Write and read haiku, poems, and memoirs; people-watch anywhere and anytime; spend time with my favourite people; walk and play with our dog; attend literary events, concerts, and non-mainstream films; travel; spend time in nature; eat great food; and find some joy in every day.

Things you’d run through a fire or eat bugs to get out of doing: I don’t like doing housework, but I do it because I really like a clean home.

Most embarrassing moment: Realizing that someone I thought liked me really didn’t.

Proudest moment: My first book launch, and seeing all the people that attended from all different areas and times of my life.

The nicest thing a reader said to you: “I love your book, and I especially love your poem Why a Parade.

The craziest thing a reader said to you: “What did you eat for breakfast today, and why?”

The most exciting thing about your writing life: How much fun it is to write, edit and get published.

The one thing you wish you could do over in your writing life: Start writing seriously much earlier in life.

About Belinda:

Belinda's poetry and award-winning haiku are in various anthologies, literary journals, and chapbooks. Her poetry collection, Phases, was a 2020 finalist for two Saskatchewan Book Awards. The second edition, published in 2022, contains thirty-one additional new poems.

Belinda is a founding member of two long-running Saskatoon writing groups, Sisters' Ink, and The Obsessors. Beyond writing, she is a Board member of both Spark Your Pride, and Queer Seniors of Saskatchewan.

When she’s not writing, editing, mentoring, or volunteering, Belinda reads voraciously, especially poetry and memoirs. She lives in Saskatoon with her Australian wife and their rescue dog, a springer-spaniel/terrier cross.

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http://belindabetker.com

#ThisorThatThursday Author Interview with the And I Thought Ladies - Wilnona and Jade

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I had so much fun with during an interview that Wilnona and Jade, the And I Thought Ladies, did with me about my mysteries that I had to invite them to the blog to share their stories with you.

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Favorite beverage: Wilnona: My favorite beverage is 21 year old scotch on the rocks Jade: Coffee and/or water

Something that gives you a sour face: Wilnona: Tear jerkers Jade: Lemon Drops

Favorite smell: Wilnona: I love the smell of cookies Jade: Baking bread

Something that makes you hold your nose: Wilnona: a port a potty Jade: Old fashion potpourri

Something you’re really good at: Wilnona: Like any writer I am good at procrastination Jade: Finding time for a nap.

Something you’re really bad at: Wilnona: I am terrible with math Jade: I am terrible with only having one glass of wine.

Something you wish you could do: Wilnona: I wish I could have skipped 2020 Jade: I have to agree with Wilnona.

Something you wish you’d never learned to do: Jade: how to waste time.

Something you like to do: Wilnona: Travel Jade: Eat great food.

Something you wish you’d never done: Jade: Read Ivanhoe (yeah I know I’m going to get hate mail for that). Wilnona: One time with friends a drank some cheap wine. It was disgusting I will never forget that taste.

Last best thing you ate: Wilnona: I enjoyed a seafood platter with Chicago delicacies shipped from Chicago,

Last thing you regret eating: Jade: A dry cake I made I didn’t want to waste food so I just kept eating it.

The last thing you ordered online: I ordered my specialized water Jade: I order everything online now a days.

The last thing you regret buying: Wilnona: Pants without looking at the reviews. Can you say disaster? Jade: Cheap pens most of them didn’t write.

Things you’d walk a mile for: Wilnona: Any type of good food or exercise Jade: I concur, Wilnona.

Things that make you want to run screaming from the room: Wilnona: The reflection of my bad hair day

Favorite places you’ve been: Jade: Greek Isles Wilnona: Same here

Places you never want to go to again: Jade & Wilnona: Canada during the winter. Y’all it was just down right cold.

Favorite books (or genre): Jade: Pride And Prejudice Wilnona: Mickey Spillane

Books you wouldn’t buy: Wilnona: An exercise book, I just prefer videos.

Things that make you happy: Jade: Finding a new author to read that has a series of books.

Things that drive you crazy: Jade: People who fold down edges of the pages to mark their spot in a book. That’s what bookmarks or scrap pieces of paper are made for.

Most embarrassing moment: Wilnona: Getting. My dress caught in a gas pump hose

Proudest moment: Jade: Winning IALA Poet of the Year 2019

The coolest person you’ve ever met: Jade: My dad and I am pretty fortunate because I met him a few seconds after my birth.

Wilnona: My mom when I was old enough understand how cool she really was.

The celebrity who didn’t look like he/she did in pictures/video: Wilnona: Myself People say it all the time “You don’t look the same in person”(I’m so not a celeb, but I couldn’t help myself.)

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About Wilnona and Jade

The And I Thought Ladies, Wilnona and Jade are award-winning poets. Jade is the IALA Poet of the Year in 2019. Wilnona is Advocate Award winner.   They are  the co-founders of the Inspirational Women in Literature Media and Journalism Awards, the founders of the 25 hottest Authors magazine, the thoughtful book festival, and the and I thought literary magazine. They are. the  authors of 17 books in two series (The And I Thought & Miss-Fit guide Series). Their most recent book was a #1 Bestseller in poetry & anthologies category. They are 18th most interviewed authors and international pop poets who have read for poet laureates, been on four European book tours and co-hosted conferences on three continents. They are the US Correspondents for UK TV show Chrissy B. The ladies also host four podcasts, a vlog, and have a clothing line based off their books.

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My Fan Girl Moment - I Met Nikki Giovanni

I had the pleasure this month to meet and hear Nikki Giovanni speak at the Library of Virginia's Literary Awards Luncheon. She received the well deserved Lifetime Achievement Award.

Nikki Giovanni is a Virginia and national treasure. Here's what I learned from her discussion.

  • We all get old. Otherwise, we die young.
  • Don't hold things in.
  • Build a community. Relationships are important.
  • She decided as a young girl to be happy. She controlled her outlook.
  • She was friends with Toni Morrison and Maya Angelou. And her stories of friendship were priceless.
  • She talked about her speeding tickets on I-81.
  • Read something every day. (She likes the comic strip "Pickles.")
  • You have to let people know you love them while you can.
  • Keep writing!
  • You have to write your story.